Cant believe I missed this thread.
If I don’t get at least 3 sessions of actual intercourse and 2 BJs a week, I’m rubbing the texture off the walls with my cock. I turn into an animal. Random shit becomes attractive around the house. I actually asked her if I could fuck the back of her bent knee one night but she laughed so hard I played it off as a joke.
I came out and told my wife about a year ago that I’m in the mood to fuck always and I can’t help it, so if I can’t get it consistently from herthat’s permission for me to get it somewhere else.
She took it pretty well and has been giving it up on the regular ever since.
It helps that we did just enough marriage counseling about a year ago to get the sex issues and her issues with me before the conversation turned to stuff she does to bother me, then the counseling miraculously was no longer needed.