As a technical matter I agree with you but as a practical matter I advise indulging your spouse with these activities because they thrive on them and it is much smoother for you down the road.
That's why I entertain the bullshit "holiday" known as Valentine's Day.
I'm simply saying that I don't understand why some adults actually make a big deal out of their b-days. If my wife wants to do something nice for me, that's totally fine by me.
I just don't expect it or think I deserve it because it's my birthday.
40 is a big deal...and the party is not really about you...it would make your wife happy to do something cool for you. 20 years down the road you will both look back on this fondly.
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