My dog has proven to be a real project. I'm learning as much as I can at this point. Problems in experiencing or solved so far:
1. He was overweight - he apparently was fed from the table and hadn't been walked much. Every time we eat I take him into and area of the house set aside for him. We feed him gelatin dog food. We excersise him as much as we can. He had already slimmed down.
2. He is extremely mouthy - this is very hard to solve. When you let him he goes crazy with his mouth and starters biting. Even when we approach him calmly he bites and swats and cannot control himself. He clearly understands the commands and ever seems like he tries obey but he's stricken with a giant case of adhd. We are working on keeping very calm around him at all times. He has spells where he jumps on he couch and goes crazy clawing a biting. He is a giant attention whore that can't stand to not be constantly touched. We are working with him to get him under control. He killed on my wife while she was laying on the couch and scratched her pretty bad. Unfortunately my first response was to clock him on the nose. I know this is a bad option but it really did the job. He was very calm for the rest of the evening and even sat quiet and still for the first time in two weeks while he was pet. I've read all about physical punishment for dogs and how it isn't good but what is yalls experience?
3. He will war anything of he's left alone - that is just a fact of life for is right now. I don't know what to say. He's won't do it while with us but it takes about 5 minutes of being left alone to ear a shoe or remote.
I believe that [MENTION=7]P_T[/MENTION] is a lab lover. Any help here?
Labs are complete chaos until they mature. That doesn't begin until at least 18 months. In the meantime keep them outside in a contained area unless you walk or exercise them. They should never be allowed in the house until they are fully trained and that takes a lot of time. I recommend a trade in on a small breed.
Another thing is how big and goofy this dog is. You can hardly sit down because he is constantly going back and forth, panting and stomping all over everyone's feet. If you lay back on the couch with your feet sticking out forget about it. He's so big that the force of him constantly ramming into your feet hurts.
Question:
We can't really be with him 24/7 like he wants so how much is too much in his solitary confinement area? I don't want to punish him but if we want to watch a movie or something it is impossible. He just won't let us do it at this point. I feel bad but if we leave him alone he will chew everything up. He can't be outside by himself yet as we have open country and no fence. He apparently had fears of cars, so we are sorta stuck for a while.
He is not a holy terror but he is difficult in many ways. He is just very energetic and gets bored easily. Right now the dog is barking at my wife because she's doing something else and not paying attention to him. We've found that ignoring him or looking away from him helps but isn't a total cure. I honesty had no idea about dogs but I'm learning all that I can. I secretly got this dog because I knew my wife would fall in love with him and he would keep her busy. She's had 6 babies and I knew that her mom instincts would kick in. I can see her mood lift when she's having to care for him. Manipulation technique success!
I placed it across my wrist and hit the button on 1. It was barely a slight tickle. 2 was a bit stronger, but still not painful in any way. 3 was where it was a little uncomfortable, but still not pain inducing. 4 was where there was finally some pain. Kind of like a brand new 9 volt on the tip of your tongue. (I know we've all tried that a time or two.
) 5 was where it would make you sit up and pay immediate attention. The few times I had to use that on my dogs, they immediately stopped what they were doing and ran to my side. 6 made me jerk my arm and swear a little. 7 hurt quite a bit, kind of like if you've ever touched an electric fence. 8 was a holy shit, I think I may have peed a little, why the F would they make a collar go this high curse inducing shock. No dog would ever deserve that. Also, I always just laid the collar on my arm, so if/when I jerked it would fall off and break the connection. My mama didn't raise no fool. Well, she might have considering I was shocking myself with a dog collar...Give him his own space. A dog crate somewhere away from the main activity of the house, but close enough where he can hear you. Draping a blanket over it to make it a little solitary is actually a good thing. Just never cover the entrance. It's ok to close him in if you have company over, or you just need some time away. A couple hours or so is fine. Crate training is the best way to housebreak a dog, too. Dogs do not like to use the bathroom where they also sleep. Crate them at night when you go to sleep. The first few nights they will probably cry and whine. Don't give in to temptation by letting them out. It will be better for you and him in the long run. After a time, he will learn that is his den. Just be sure to let him out to go potty when the first person gets up in the morning. Also, place the dog in it's crate during your meal times. Unless you don't mind a dog hanging around your table when you eat. Once you feed a dog from the table, good luck in ever breaking it of that habit.Another thing is how big and goofy this dog is. You can hardly sit down because he is constantly going back and forth, panting and stomping all over everyone's feet. If you lay back on the couch with your feet sticking out forget about it. He's so big that the force of him constantly ramming into your feet hurts.
Question:
We can't really be with him 24/7 like he wants so how much is too much in his solitary confinement area? I don't want to punish him but if we want to watch a movie or something it is impossible. He just won't let us do it at this point. I feel bad but if we leave him alone he will chew everything up. He can't be outside by himself yet as we have open country and no fence. He apparently had fears of cars, so we are sorta stuck for a while.
Our house has a hallway the closes off from the rest of the house. It is about a 6 x 6 area.
Give him his own space. A dog crate somewhere away from the main activity of the house, but close enough where he can hear you. Draping a blanket over it to make it a little solitary is actually a good thing. Just never cover the entrance. It's ok to close him in if you have company over, or you just need some time away. A couple hours or so is fine. Crate training is the best way to housebreak a dog, too. Dogs do not like to use the bathroom where they also sleep. Crate them at night when you go to sleep. The first few nights they will probably cry and whine. Don't give in to temptation by letting them out. It will be better for you and him in the long run. After a time, he will learn that is his den. Just be sure to let him out to go potty when the first person gets up in the morning. Also, place the dog in it's crate during your meal times. Unless you don't mind a dog hanging around your table when you eat. Once you feed a dog from the table, good luck in ever breaking it of that habit.
As for the chewing, make sure he has some strong chew toys. I don't recommend stuffed animals. They will destroy it in short order, and will probably swallow some of the stuffing. Dangerous and messy. Get him a Kong. They make very tough and nearly indestructible chew toys. When the dog is chewing something he shouldn't, don't yell at him or hit him. Just take it away and tell him no in a firm voice. And replace it with what he can chew on. Praise him when he's chewing on what is acceptable. Yelling at and hitting a dog will make a very jumpy, timid dog. One that will piddle on the floor every time he gets upset. And that is VERY hard to get over.
Get him a crate. They need a place where only they can go. Don't let little kids climb in and out of it.
http://www.amazon.com/OxGord-Double...3417088&sr=1-1-spons&keywords=dog+crate&psc=1
This one is great. Sets up and breaks down for storage very easily. Just put a padded bed in the bottom.
Also, a dog that gets anxiety when you guys are away will chew crap up trying to get out of the house. Leave a radio on for them, so there is some kind of sound and it should help with that.
Sounds like it takes a village for this type.