I need to vent. When we moved out here and bought a bigger house than we needed, we extended an invite to my father in law that had a 1 bedroom apartment but rarely stayed there because he has a serious girlfriend. We told him to get rid of the apartment for now and he could stay with us when he needed a break from his old lady.
That somehow gave him the idea that he could make strong suggestions on things I’m doing to the house. Keep in mind, he’s never been a contractor/handyman and he gets all of his ideas from watching HGTV or whatever it is.
I won’t go into everything, but this weekend we were sitting around and he mentioned I should install a garbage disposal. Like all day long he was talking about the garbage disposal. And it should have a push button to activate it in one of the sink holes.
I finally got tired of hearing about it so I ventured over to the sink and realized the reason this 1970s house has never had a garbage disposal is because nobody thought to run power under the sink.
I then told him if I was to install a garbage disposal with a push button, I’d also have to buy a new faucet to change the newer 3-hole faucet that is there to make room for the button.
Basically I was explaining that it wasn’t a priority right now with all the other shit I have going on, but he’d have none of that. Everyone in the household was on the same page at that point. They wanted a garbage disposal with a push button like in those fancy homes on TV.
I went to Home Depot, picked up everything I would need to perform this task. $687 later I was on my way home to install a god damned garbage disposal, a push button, and a new faucet. Oh, and fish electrical down the wall for the new plug.
All this to say, it really irks me to the point of madness and resentment when people don’t understand what goes into doing something like that. It’s not easy, you have to know how to do shit. To them, you just install a garbage disposal. No big deal. No, it’s a big deal. Not any asshole could do that and do it right in a couple of hours so you can have your stupid push button garbage disposal that still hasn’t been used other than testing it after install.
The whole time I was doing ut I was cussing my Wife’s dad. Making snarky comments like “oh, it’s just a garbage disposal.” And “I really wish asshole was here to show me what I’m doing wrong.”, stuff like that. My wife was laughing because she knows I’m right. He tries to tell me how to do shit all the time, not realizing I’ve done this shit for over 20 years and supported my family doing it.
End rant.