The immigration thing is tricky for me.
My dad came here illegally in 1974 to make a better life for himself. There's next to no hope in 3rd world countries which is exactly what El Salvador is (though the country is making massive improvements with each passing year under President Bukele).
So if not for him setting off on that grueling voyage all those years ago, I wouldn't be here and neither would my family.
He was the first of 9 to make it over with the majority coming over legally in the 80s. By 1993, all of my dad's brothers and sisters were here and 7 were American citizens and 2 were resident aliens, but all were here legally (they're all US citizens now, obviously).
My dad made the most of his opportunities and busted his ass. He became a plant manager for Dow Chemical where he worked for 36 years until he retired in 2016.
He's a perfect example of the American dream and what it's supposed to stand for. He loves this country and has always been grateful for the opportunities it afforded him. And he's been a staunch Republican for as long as I can remember.
He's a productive member of society like so many others like him.
But what about all those other people who are in the exact same position my dad was 51 years ago? Good, hardworking people who just want a chance to make a decent life for themselves that their current countries can't and won't ever be able to provide?
I empathize with them.... because I know what those places are like and I know what it is to just want a decent life for yourself and for the people you love. So I can't fault anyone for doing what they have to do to get into this country, but I also understand illegal migration is out of control and needs to be addressed which is why I'm in total favor of controlling our borders.
I just can't bring myself to have that "get them the fuck out of here" sort of attitude about it though, you know?
I just count my lucky stars that my family and I are good, but I have compassion for the honest people who are being kept out and/or removed from this country.
It's tough.